I am going to choice the Cruelty, Civility, and other Weighty Matters. I Agree with what Ann Marie Paulin says though out here Essay. Some of the reasons why i agree i have some friends that do go through how there mom and dad breaking then down and call them fat. It is really sad how this effect the kid and i have seen this first hand. Just like Ann said “Fat people are assumed to be lazy,stupid, ugly,lacking in self-esteem and pride,devoid of self-control, and stuffed full of a host of other unpleasant qualities that have nothing to do with the size of the person’s belly or thighs”. This is because I now some overweight people that are the not that. they work and are very strong people then most thin people. I have also have some guys friends that are fit and in shape but are really lazy and lack in self-esteem and self-control .